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How Does the Law of Attraction Work in Love?

Relationships are one of the main areas where people commonly look for help from the Law of Attraction. If we could just focus on the person we want in our lives and have them drawn to us! Or think positively about our ex and have them come running back! You may have heard – correctly – that we can’t create in someone else’s life; however here are two ways that the Law of Attraction can dramatically improve or even save a relationship.

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Focus on what we love about them
When we first meet someone we fall in love with, everything about them is wonderful; but it usually doesn’t take long before certain aspects of their personality or things they do start to grate on us. The truth is, we all have these irritating habits and our partners’ are probably no worse than our own. As with so much of the Law of Attraction, the key is where we focus.

If there are 19 things about our partner that we love and 1 thing that drives us nuts and we focus on that one thing, it will seem that they’re doing it more and more often to annoy us. Alternatively, if they do 19 things that make us crazy and 1 thing that we adore and we focus on that one thing – we won’t even notice the other 19. We get more of what we focus on, so it’s up to us to choose where we put our attention.

Celebrate what’s going right
Along the same lines, instead of spending hours talking or in therapy trying to “fix” what’s wrong, celebrate and savor what’s wonderful about your relationship.

Spend an evening going through old photos or videos, talk about happy memories – not from the perspective of yearning for the past, but in an atmosphere of shared history and happiness that you can re-create simply by remembering it.

Praise and thank your partner for the things they do that you truly appreciate; whether it’s taking out the trash or making you laugh, let them know what you love about them. Law of Attraction says that by focusing on what you appreciate, you attract more things to appreciate – so expect your partner to please you and watch them “change” to match your expectations. In fact, they probably won’t have changed at all, it’s where you place your attention that determines what you see.

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