Sometimes it’s easier to make several big life changes at the same time. That’s what I want to do, and I’ve given myself 90 days to make significant progress in 5 areas: changing my body, my relationship, my social life, my business – and becoming fluent in a new language.
Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies ~ Fleetwood Mac
If you’re reading this shortly after I posted it, you’ll realize that Days 6 – 10 are missing. That’s because I wrote them, then realised that they didn’t sound like me at all; in fact they sounded like a mashup of a thousand other personal development bloggers.
I’m going out on a bit of a limb here. If you start reading up on the Law of Attraction or The Secret, you’ll find lots of discussion about how our unconscious or subconscious beliefs can sabotage our desires. Apparently although we might say that we want a great relationship for example, if subconsciously we don’t believe that’s possible for us then we won’t be able to create it. The theory goes on to say that because these beliefs aren’t conscious we’re not aware of them, and so we carry on blindly and blithely doing “all the right things” outwardly and never realize why we don’t get what we want.
Trust means trust in yourself, in your ability to get into alignment. Once you know you can do that, no matter what, then what someone else does is no longer an issue.